While the beginning of the year brings the typical making and breaking of resolutions, today we recognize the amazing people we know who have made real change in their lives. We will not mention them by name, but rather share some things they have in common.
Change frequently comes following an expression of sincere desire and urgency. There is a realization that the status quo is no longer acceptable, that there must be a change. The existing patterns and circumstances are causing pain and there seems to be no prospects for things to get better. Wendy Watson Nelson recently described this state as “anguishing desperation.” Sometimes people need to reach rock bottom. In one case, it had to happen twice.
Change frequently comes following an expression of sincere desire and urgency. There is a realization that the status quo is no longer acceptable, that there must be a change. The existing patterns and circumstances are causing pain and there seems to be no prospects for things to get better. Wendy Watson Nelson recently described this state as “anguishing desperation.” Sometimes people need to reach rock bottom. In one case, it had to happen twice.
Further there is recognition that help is needed and, maybe for the first time, there is a reaching out and up. Previous offers for help are no longer ignored, rather they are welcomed. This short-term dependency on real friends and God leads to a healthy independence as habits are changed and new skills are learned. Dependence becomes partnership and team work. People who have experienced change are now in a position to help others through the process.
Real change requires both the mind and the heart, but starts with the heart. It is a time to learn to trust and act on the impressions and whispers of the heart, even though they may seem illogical to the mind which is stuck in well-worn ruts.
Real change requires both the mind and the heart, but starts with the heart. It is a time to learn to trust and act on the impressions and whispers of the heart, even though they may seem illogical to the mind which is stuck in well-worn ruts.
We have seen the value of a well thought out plan, including milestones, and even changing physical environments. Accountability is increased when the plan is shared with others for their support and encouragement.
Finally, there is the important element of not looking back. Remembering Lot’s wife can help them understand the value of sticking it out until new habits are formed.
We salute the pioneers who have exemplified incredible courage and have given up so much to become better. Our lives have been forever changed because they were willing to change.
Finally, there is the important element of not looking back. Remembering Lot’s wife can help them understand the value of sticking it out until new habits are formed.
We salute the pioneers who have exemplified incredible courage and have given up so much to become better. Our lives have been forever changed because they were willing to change.